Someone different and adventurious
Still Waters run deep and so do I, I'm adventurous, easy going, nonjudgmental and not possessive man in a complicated marital situation. If your idea of good conversation is American Idol, John and Kate or how the Lions/Tigers always blow the big game I can pretend to be interested but would rather talk about something with a little more depth. I'll try almost anything not to extreme once, and I'm not above doing things I'm not crazy about if it really turns my partner on but turnabout should be fair play too. I'm very oral and love both giving and receiving and enjoy extended fore and afterplay.
An adventurous, easy going, nonjudgmental and reasonably nonpossessive is a big plus in a partner; Drama queens and headgames is a big minus, I get enough of that at home. I'm not obsessed of looks or size personality is important and being able to present a logical thought is icing on the cake.