Don't worry, I've got a head (on my shoulders) too....
I'm a seasoned lifestyler (going back to the '80s and the "Plato's Retreat" days in NYC and swing clubs in LA and Vegas) out of water. The wife knew my past, she even met me at a swingers party, but over time she could never shake the demons her ex instilled in her (he exploited her pretty bad), so she decided WE had to retire from swinging. I love her like crazy but I need more. It's pretty much impossible to negate 20+ years of the great times I had in the lifestyle. Oh, and I'm insatiably oral.I've got face pics but those are only available by request.
Married/Attached women in the same situation, more or less as myself, who are wanting only extracurricular fun and not looking to "trade up". Couples that want a 3rd wheel (MFM only, I'm Str8 guys). A woman who may want to accompany me to a local swing club that I hold a membership to, for a broader scope of play possibilities.Discretion is a must, and it is also a guarantee from me.