The main sex organ is the mind....
I am 45 years old I keep myself fit so there are no signs of middle age spread (in fact, a flat stomach) and I have been told I look younger, but usually by people who want to borrow money. I am also quite well read/educated, happy with my own company (nobody will have me), easy going, compassionate (and passionate), I like to listen to others; I am a decent cook (Indian, Italian, Chinese, English). I like music and occasionally play in a band (when my friends aren't around).
A tactile woman not afraid of exploring the mind as well as sexuality. A good friend who is not afraid of a good laugh.