Do you need a good (playful) spanking?
I am divorced and have 2 teenage daughters who are in college. I help build and live in a passive solar house overlooking a shared lake. I have worked in several professions: Teacher (Math, Music, Science), Furniture stripper, PC Sales, PC Network support, Accounting/Tax, Internet Marketing, and still don't know what I want to be (if I decide to grow up).
My ideal partner does not "need" a man to complete her life, she is complete just the way she is. She is independent, self assured, and playful. She is willing to share herself with me as well as to accept the gifts (and annoyances) I bring to the relationship.