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I retired from the Army, graduated from West Point, and have owned two businesses, and teach. My wife died of cervical cancer in 2002. I teach "at risk" kids, play with a local jazz/blues band when I have time, and enjoy going to baseball games, and watching football. I miss romance and sex in my life.
My ideal partner will like music and dancing on Friday and Saturday nights, with movie and dinner. Thinks going to the French Quarter and Beale Street in Memphis is a representative of heaven. She'll know when I touch her, that I care. She'll sometimes think a nooner requires too much foreplay, but other times will understand if the foreplay takes all day.